Boy Butter Blog

A blog about being an entrepreneur in the 21st Century who shares his global adventures in fighting friction with a mix of social and personal lubrication.


  • The End of the Jewish Left
    Political theorist Michael Walzer and others argue about the death of the century-long Jewish-Leftist alliance
    “Why so many alte kockers? Where is the rising generation?” The grumbler sitting behind me at the conference on “Jews and the Left,” sponsored by YIVO last week at the Center for Jewish History in New York, was not exactly being fair. Any academic conference will attract an older-skewing audience, and for all the gray hair in the seats and on the dais, the YIVO conference did have its share of eager young attendees.
    Behind the complaint, however, it was possible to hear a larger, more painful question. For the first two-thirds of the 20th century, from the first immigrant generation through the baby boom, the radical and revolutionary left played a hugely important role in defining how the rest of America saw Jews and how Jews saw themselves. From Mike Gold’s proletarian novel Jews Without Moneyall the way down to Tony Kushner’s Angels in America, the literature and mythology of American Jewish radicalism has often appeared identical—to a certain audience—with Judaism itself. Even now there are people who revel in bygone lore about the Forverts and the Freiheit, Jay Lovestone and Max Shachtman. But living heirs to that tradition can be hard to find. Somewhat plaintively, my neighbor at the conference—like many of the participants—seemed to be asking, Is there still such a thing as a Jewish left? And if not, ought we to regret it?



  • Opening up the Boy Butter Beach house for summer 2012
    The Boy Butter flag waves
    A harmless Boy Butter poster on Fire Island Blvd.
    What kind of sick pervert put this poster up on the community bulletin board?
    Fire Island fauna
    Relaxation with a view
    A view from above





  • Guess who is mentioned in the new SAGE Matters Newsletter?
    The SAGE Center for LGBT Older Adults (and Cyber Center) 
    Weekday Dinner Service for People 60+
    Monday-Friday 5pm to 6:30 pm
    305 7th Avenue, 15th Floor (Cross-streets 27th & 28th)



  • Check out my sister, Donna Feldman, uber-glam red carpet hostess at Britweek 2012 in Beverly Hills
          Donna Feldman of ReeKandi.tv, Hollywood's hottest super-model red carpet hostess is giving us real good red carpet interviews with Kelly Osbourne, Piers Morgan, and best selling author Jackie Collins. Donna is reporting from The Britweek 2012 Gala in Beverly Hills is in honor of Piers Morgan, who seems to be keen on feeding her some mushy pees (gross)!

    Britweek 2012 Gala in Beverly Hills in honor of Piers Morgan



  • Listen to my radio interview about the 'Sirius Boy Butter Problem' only on The Steve Yuhas Show
    Listen to my May 6th, 2012 interview on the Steve Yuhas Show, San Diego's KOGO Radio 600 AM about the current Opie and Anthony vs. Boy Butter on Sirius/XM drama. My interview starts right away on the first segment at minute two.
             Click here to Listen







  • Do Opie and Anthony have a 'SIRIUS' problem with gays?

        The old adage if it walks like a duck might apply in my case, but I leave it to you to decide if I was the target of anti-gay discrimination? Just a few short weeks ago my product, Boy Butter Lubricants, was singled out in a very public way on Sirius/XM Satellite radio's Opie and Anthony Show. After having been a loyal and longtime sponsor for several shows on several channels for the better part of a year, a public shaming of Boy Butter, a product I created years ago for people's private lives, was broadcast throughout North America from Hawaii to the Big Apple and from Key West to the North Pole.  The one minute long Boy Butter ad has been sponsoring segments on Howard Stern, Derek and Romaine, The Dr. Berman Show, Ben and Dave’s Six Pack and until recently, Opie and Anthony.  

    This nefarious incident unfolded after a stranger, an Opie and Anthony listener, recognized me (wearing a Boy Butter shirt) and he informed me that he heard a negative conversation that took place on the air during an Opie and Anthony segment sponsored by my product. This person was a stranger and unknown to me and since I did not hear the remarks they slipped my mind and I thought him confused or taking them out of context, as often happens. That didn’t sound like Opie and Anthony, the same infamous hosts who sent couples to have sex in St. Patrick's Cathedral as a radio contest stunt, so and I easily brushed it off as gossip.  
     
    However the following day I was informed by my adverstising representative for Sirius/XM that Boy Butter was no longer welcome to sponsor Opie and Anthony. After a brief conversation with him I easily pulled up the youtube clip of the offensive segment in question (embedded at the top of this post) that I paid for with my advertising. The hosts not only bashed my product but for close to fifteen minutes began to pick me apart, Boy Butter Lubricants, Hedda Lettuce (drag queen icon associated with Boy Butter), and probably many other gays that I am sure felt weird hearing this juvenile conversation take place on the radio.

    The conversation was mostly Opie and Anthony complaining that they wanted my product off of their list of sponsors in exchange for a more apt beer commercial. Not only did they want a beer commercial, but they didn’t care if they, “blew up the Boy Butter sponsorship.”  I am an advertiser of a product that is no different than any other advertised on their program, in fact, Adam & Eve (an adult novelty retailer that sells Boy Butter) is still advertising on their program and the only thing that distinguishes the two of us is that Boy Butter is presumably “too gay” for them. They proceeded to spend an entire segment bashing my product, using an effeminate voice to deride and insult the very product which was helping pay for that very segment.  

    Opie and Anthony bill their show as being "edgy and uncensored" except they chose to take a product that was helping pay the bills and not only ridicule it, but the person behind the brand and maybe gay people in general with their senseless seventh grade “humor.” They then censored me by banning my sponsorship from that point forward and refused to return my calls and emails to get a simple explanation. It would be awesome to have the opportunity to go on Opie and Anthony to defend myself and present a rebuttal, since they had attacked my product unfairly in a most unprofessional manner. They owe me a public apology and a proper explanation, devoid of stereotypical gay lisps, for why this issue ever came up in the first place. It would be one thing if this was a show of religious conviction or one that did not have a history of sexualized advertising (i.e., Adam & Eve) – I’m keenly aware that advertising needs to be targeted at an audience that is best suited to receive but my ads were no different than Adam Eve, except my product is apparently for people with lisps. This is the perfect example of this endemic trend of bullying gay people cause it is the last acceptable discriminatory practice. 
      
           Listen to the segment and tell me what you think.  Am I overreacting or do Opie and Anthony owe me the courtesy of explaining their objection to my product and to gay people for their quarter-hour rant against Boy Butter and me simply because they can't get a beer commercial?


    Please listen live this Sunday May 6th at (6:05 pm Pacific - 9:05 pm Eastern) for a discussion with me on San Diego's best talk radio show, KOGO 600 am Radio: The Steve Yuhas Show.



  • Hiking through the Upper Las Virgenes Open Space Preserve
             At the west end of the San Fernando Valley running into Calabasas, there is a huge nature preserve that is covered in awesome, sprawling, hill rolling nature trails. Although the landscape is typical California chapparal, it is fascinating to see the differences through the seasons. In winter it is brown, dry and like a haunted martian landscape. In spring it comes alive with color and new growth.
            There are many Los Angeles hiking trails running through the huge area. Our usual spot to start out is at the end of Victory Blvd (take the 101 to Valley Circle north and then turn left at Victory). This "Victory Trailhead" has a parking lot (please pay the few dollars for parking to help support the protection of the park!) and you can head out in several directions and literally hike for days if you wanted to. Its gigantic! There are other trail heads at the southern end of the preserve, along Mureau Rd, Lost Hills Rd and Chesebro Rd., as well.    
                                                                   
                                                   Me thinks that the moment my legs begin to move, 
    my thoughts begin to flow.  ~Henry David Thoreau

    Victory Trailhead sights
    Picnic delight
    The path uphill
    Flora and fauna
    Turn in the trail 
    Chaparral



  • Donna Feldman's Birthday Bash in LA
           Super fabulous and ultra chic, Donna Feldman had a birthday bash in Studio City, CA this past weekend and it was off the hook. Now a lady never reveals her true age so lets just say Donna can legally buy liquor and car insurance in any state in this great ol' USA. With her family and friends by her side, Donna was able to celebrate yet one more revolution around the sun looking as gorgeous as ever. We snapped some cool shots at the party and as is evident we were all dressed to impress and party hardy till it got tardy, mazel tov!
    My parents (Amos and Esther) and myself right before we left for Donna's party.
    Me, Donna and Brendan McGovern
    Donna and best friend Jackie, lives of the party.
    Great shot of the Feldman family, love, love, love.



  • Israel Marks 64 Years Of Independence
    JERUSALEM (AP) — Israelis celebrated their country's 64th anniversary Wednesday with fireworks and military processions at a national ceremony in Jerusalem.
    The festivities came immediately after Memorial Day for fallen soldiers and victims of militant attacks, an annual ritual of twinning grief with elation and pointing out the link between the two.
    Preparations for Independence Day were marred last week when a lighting rig collapsed during a rehearsal, crushing a young soldier to death.

    Speaking at the official ceremony, Parliament Speaker Reuven Rivlin cautioned against extremism of all stripes, naming ultra-Orthodox Jewish zealots, ideologues who burn mosques and activists who delegitimize the state as "those who threaten the future of Israeli society."
    Government statistics showed that Israel's population grew by 137,500 since last year to 7,881,000. The Central Bureau of Statistics said 75 percent of the population is Jewish and 21 percent is Arab. The remaining 4 percent represents tiny minorities or immigrants who are not Jewish.
    Traditional Independence Day celebrations include dancing in city streets and family cookouts in national parks. Some military bases open Thursday for visits, and Israeli cities host open-air concerts in honor of the holiday.




  • VIDEO: Find out what Chinese people think about Jews

         A well known American stereotype is that Jews love Chinese food, but what do the Chinese think of Jews? Rachel Guo, the creator of the web-based Chinese series "Real China, No Drama" asked the same question. The answers were presented in an episode fittingly called "Oy Vey: China on the Jews" and seem to stick to the stereotypical impressions of Jewish people in a country where bookstores are full of titles like "The Magic of Jewish Investment" and "The Kaballah of Smart Business Management"